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Can one person make a difference?

By Steve Brawner
© 2015 by Steve Brawner Communications, Inc.

Political professionals are often cynical people, so it was surprising to hear lobbyist and Republican consultant Bill Vickery make this idealistic statement during a recent banquet speech: “There has also never been a time in American politics where one individual can have more of an impact than right at this very moment.”

Journalists can be cynical people, too, so one might say in response, “Yeah, if that individual is Sheldon Adelson.” Adelson is a Las Vegas casino magnate spending a chunk of his fortune on Republican Party presidential politics, so candidates approach him on their knees with hat in hand. In 2012, the process became known as the “Sheldon Adelson primary.”

Can one average person make a difference? In some ways, this democracy is becoming less democratic. Today’s campaign tactics, media landscape and digital data miners have sliced America into distinct electoral blocs that the political pros can manipulate. Moneymen like Adelson, who can make virtually unlimited donations, have tremendous influence over the process.

It’s impossible for normal citizens to compete toe to toe with that, but they do have some powerful weapons these days – their own ideas, their own energy, social media. A YouTube video that goes viral can have more impact than millions of dollars in commercials. Vickery said an energetic Cleveland campaign volunteer for Sen. John Kerry’s 2004 presidential campaign made such a difference in that city that her absence was felt when she was hospitalized. Vickery didn’t mention it, but four years earlier, how many volunteers would have been needed to erase Florida’s 537-vote margin between Bush and Vice President Al Gore? Not many.

In a democracy where the many are just grumbling and complaining, the few who actually act can have an outsized influence. In many counties, the tea party is composed of a small number of Arkansans, usually not bank president types, who together have far more sway than their neighbors because they are organized and involved. When a few hundred activists protesting the Religious Freedom Restoration Act lined the steps leading to the Arkansas House of Representatives, legislators who supported the bill found another route to the chamber, but they couldn’t ignore the crowd. The Legislature itself isn’t composed of members of the state’s elite. Instead it’s mostly average people who decided, “Why not me?” The powerful speaker of the House, Jeremy Gillam, R-Judsonia, owns a berry farm.

The thing that ties a lot of these people together is that they stopped just griping about the government and instead engaged in practical politics. The Cleveland woman was volunteering for the Democratic nominee, not a fringe candidate. Tea party members write letters to the editor, contact their legislators and vote in every Republican primary. Sometimes a Martin Luther King does come along who totally changes the way a nation thinks. But you’re probably not the next Martin Luther King, so get involved where it can matter.

It’s worth noting that Vickery made his comment at Heifer International’s headquarters in Little Rock. The hunger relief organization was started by farmer Dan West, a member of the Church of the Brethren who did some relief work during the Spanish Civil War in the 1930s and decided that country’s poorest people could be helped more by giving them a cow instead of just a cup of milk. Since then, Heifer International has provided farm animals and other services to 22.6 million families around the world.

Life is about expectations, and so is politics. If your definition of “making a difference” is “remaking the world to my liking, by myself and without much effort,” then this message isn’t for you. Adelson poured $15 million into Newt Gingrich’s 2012 campaign, and Gingrich didn’t come close to winning, so you will not fix the national debt with one letter to your congressman. But if you and those like you organize around a common, attainable goal, use the modern tools you have available, and stay committed despite a few setbacks, you’d be surprised at what you might accomplish.

That’s especially the case in state and local politics. At the State Capitol, there’s sort of a little familiar club of legislators, lobbyists, state employees and journalists – and then regular people come in and upset the apple cart sometimes.

That can be you. You can get a lot done, but not by yourself. So, no, generally one person can’t make a difference. But a few one persons can.

Bearing truth a higher standard than not lying

Ten CommandmentsBy Steve Brawner
© 2015 by Steve Brawner Communications, Inc.

The Legislature has sent a bill to Gov. Asa Hutchinson that would install a Ten Commandments monument on the Capitol grounds using private funds. Already preoccupied with the controversy over the Religious Freedom Restoration Act, he has not said if he will sign it as of this writing. It’s unknown if the monument would survive the inevitable lawsuit that would follow. If it ever gets built, let’s hope all passersby pay close attention to Commandment #9.

That would be the one that says, “Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor.”

I’ve always thought that commandment referred to an untrue accusation or testimony, in and out of court. Some people simplify the commandment as, “Thou shalt not lie.”

Kevin Thompson, pastor of Fort Smith’s Community Bible Church, had a different take recently on his excellent blog, www.kevinathompson.com. He wrote that the Ninth Commandment doesn’t simply prohibit lying. It means, say only what you know to be true.

“Truth telling” is a higher standard than “not lying.” Lying is purposely distorting the truth. Bearing false witness, on the other hand, can be the result of inattentiveness – saying something that might be true but hasn’t been verified. Repeating a rumor isn’t necessarily lying, but it’s bearing false witness.

The times call for a reexamination of this concept. Modern communication tools enable us to share any fleeting idea that enters our minds from the safety (and often anonymity) of our computer screens. Twitter says that more than 500 million Tweets are sent each day. Facebook says it has 1.4 billion users. You know the saying about a lie being repeated often enough that it becomes the truth? Twitter and Facebook add fiber optic cables to the equation.

Social media is one of many realties of modern life that can help us insulate ourselves in our own, self-selected worlds. Most of us are more likely to “friend” and “follow” people who are similar to us than those who are different than us. We live in red and blue states. Most congressional districts are safely Republican or Democrat, the result of the way the lines have been drawn but also the choices Americans have made. The news media we consume simplify complicated political issues into comic book tales, assuring us that we’re on the heroes’ side. Chances are our neighbors and co-workers have mostly the same beliefs and lifestyles as ours. Until a few decades ago, the rich man and the poor man lived in close proximity, and not that differently. Today, we’re separated by miles, gates and walls.

This reality of modern life makes it easier for false witnesses to be repeated. In our self-assuring cliques, we know we won’t be challenged by different perspectives, so we feel safe in making extreme, provocative, unproven statements. Because there are so few filters, our fellow clique members can safely repeat and amplify these false witnesses.

Feeling superior feels so good, but it doesn’t do much to create a more perfect union. So what is an involved citizen supposed to do?

Ancient Israel was not a democracy, but the Ninth Commandment applies to our society. If you don’t know that President Obama is secretly a Kenyan-born jihadist, don’t say it. Instead, rely on demonstrable facts, such as that the national debt has increased from $11.9 trillion since Sept. 30, 2009 – the first fiscal year over which he might be called responsible – to $18.2 trillion today. Meanwhile, if you don’t know that President Bush had something to do with the Sept. 11 attacks, then don’t make that horrible accusation. Instead, cite a 2013 study by Brown University’s Watson Institute for International Studies, which found the Iraq War could end up costing more than $6 trillion when future expenses are counted. And then, because truth-telling involves fairness, add that Obama inherited problems that contributed to the rising debt; or that there hasn’t been a major terrorist attack on U.S. soil since 9-11, so Bush and Obama must have done something right; or that studies can be wrong.

Kinda hard to fit all that into a 140-character Tweet, isn’t it?

The thing about bearing false witness is that you’re less likely to do it if you keep your mouth shut. That not always being possible, the less said, the better.

So I’m shutting up now. Have a good day, and I mean that truthfully.

A new family’s merry Christmas

By Steve Brawner
© 2014 by Steve Brawner Communications, Inc.

As of Dec. 22, there were 621 children across Arkansas whose parents’ rights have been terminated and who have no “forever family” with whom to share this Christmas. Unlike last year, Robert, 17, is not one of them.

Instead, Robert is celebrating the holiday for the first time with Todd and Gwynn Harris, now known to him as Dad and Mom. All three names have been changed for this column.

Robert’s biological parents’ rights were terminated in 2011, when he was 13. During the next three years, he lived in four group homes. He was loved and he made friends, but it was a rootless existence, and the holidays could be a depressing time. Because he had siblings and because he was older, it was unlikely anyone ever would adopt him. Kids like him usually age out of the system.

Meanwhile, Todd, now 32, and Gwynn, now 31, were coming to the conclusion that they were supposed to start a family. Married eight years, they both had good jobs and had built a good life together. They could go out to dinner whenever they wanted. They made memories that they commemorated with Christmas ornaments.

They were capable of having children but decided God had other plans. They became involved in two organizations, The CALL (thecallinarkansas.org) and Project Zero (www.theprojectzero.org), that work with churches to find homes for children in the system. The CALL, as it has done for more than 1,000 families since its founding in 2007, organized training sessions to prepare them to be adoptive parents. Thanks to Project Zero’s Arkansas Heart Gallery, which displays photos of children needing homes, they saw Robert’s picture and began wondering if he was the one they should adopt.

They stopped wondering after they helped organize a Christmas party at Robert’s group home. They tried to talk to him, but, unaware they were considering adopting him, he quickly wandered away. Boys being boys, he was chasing after an ex-girlfriend. But something clicked.

“I came home from that night and told Todd that I would be heartbroken if he didn’t come home to live with us, that he was our son,” Gwynn said.

Things happened quickly from there. Last New Year’s Day, Todd and Gwynn placed their request to be matched with Robert. On Feb. 7, Robert came home to visit. Actually, they picked him up at the group home, but a snowstorm made driving so hazardous that they ended up sleeping at their church.

“Welcome to the family. This is the good, the bad and the ugly,” Gwynn told him.

It’s been going well. He’s a pleasant kid. Within about a week he felt comfortable calling them Mom and Dad. The extended family members have made him feel welcome, he said.

Of course, there have been challenges. Todd and Gwynn learned that Robert is dyslexic – which he didn’t even know – and has significant reading problems. Robert had to adjust to a new home with new expectations. Todd and Gwynn went from being childless to being parents of a teenager. Robert’s sisters have been adopted, but he doesn’t know where his brothers are, and it concerns him.

For 16 years, Todd, Gwynn and Robert missed out on each other, but they’re not worried about that. Parenting is a long-term project no matter what age you start. This is a family now.

“What we’ve told Robert is that adulthood is when you have the skills that you need to be able to be a principled man that lives well and can do all the things that an adult needs to do,” Todd said. “It doesn’t necessarily associate directly with a number. And so we tell him all the time that he stays here … as long as he needs to figure things out and to kind of assemble the tools that he needs for life.”

It’s been a great first Christmas together. They’ve driven around looking at lights and talked a lot about the holiday’s true meaning. Four new Christmas tree ornaments mark Robert’s place in the family. Three stockings hang in their home instead of two.

And will the pitter-patter of more teenage feet be heard in the Harris household?

“If God tells us to do it, we’re always open to more,” Todd said. “But right now we’re just kind of plugging along and working with Robert on raising him. And (we) kind of expect, if it happens again, for it to be just a sudden and abrupt thing where we hear about it and we take off again.”

Asa and Bret

By Steve Brawner
© 2014 by Steve Brawner Communications, Inc.

If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.

Two Arkansans from very different walks of life personify that old expression – Gov.-elect Asa Hutchinson and Bret Bielema, Razorbacks head football coach. In this post-Thanksgiving column, let’s celebrate their achievements before returning to day-to-day politics next week.

Hutchinson not only tried again, but he tried, tried, tried again. Three times he lost badly in statewide elections – the last a 56-41 shellacking at the hands of Gov. Mike Beebe in the 2006 governor’s race. (Remember “Asa!”?) He faced good opponents, but he also lost those races because he chose to put an “R” beside his name instead of a “D,” when many other aspirational candidates simply joined the majority party.

For some reason, the former congressman, Drug Enforcement Agency director, and under secretary of the Department of Homeland Security really, really wanted to be governor of Arkansas, so he placed his name on the ballot again. Now 63 and about to turn 64, this year probably was his last chance to be elected. Naturally reserved, he seemed confident, relaxed and cheerful throughout the campaign. The swirling winds of history had shifted in his favor, and he knew it.

The dog has finally caught the car, but unlike the dog, Hutchinson seems to know what to do with his prize. He is methodically preparing his budget and determining who will lead the various state agencies. He’s been measured in his public comments and seems genuinely interested in uniting the state under his leadership – even, as columnist John Brummett recently reported, having a long phone conversation with Bill Clinton, whom Hutchinson prosecuted during the impeachment trial.

You have to add a few more “try agains” to Bielema’s situation – 12 in fact. The coach left a winning situation in Wisconsin to rebuild an Arkansas program that hadn’t yet recovered from the Bobby Petrino scandal. Thirteen times Bielema faced an SEC foe, and 13 times he lost, coming heartbreakingly close to victory against some of the nation’s best teams this season. Oh, yes, people were complaining – about Bielema’s throwback style of smashmouth football, and about the fact that native son Gus Malzahn, the coach many Arkansans wanted, took his Auburn team to the national championship game at the same time Bielema was going winless in the SEC last season.

Few are complaining now. Bielema’s style – both coaching and personal – seem a perfect fit for this state. He may be an Illinois native, but he was raised on a hog farm – yes, a hog farm – and he’s unquestionably one of us. Prior to the loss against Missouri Friday, Arkansas had shut out LSU and Ole Miss by a combined score of 47-0. The Razorbacks had finished one spot out of the Associated Press Top 25 poll. Has a 6-6 team ever been this good or this respected?

Arkansas’ future looks very bright. The Hogs are bowl-eligible, which didn’t seem likely a few weeks ago. They’ll enter next season with talent, depth, experience and high expectations. With so many other programs adopting the pass-first spread offense, blue-chip high school offensive linemen and running backs have to be placing Arkansas near the top of their lists. And just as Hutchinson did this year, the Razorbacks will continue to have success in future Novembers, particularly when the weather turns colder and the game becomes less about airing it out and more about grinding it out.

Grinding it out – that’s Hutchinson and Bielema. They tried and tried again, and then they succeeded.

Happy Giving Thanks Day

By Steve Brawner
© 2014 by Steve Brawner Communications, Inc.

I let certain things get to me more than they should, such as the misuse of the apostrophe to pluralize a word on hand-lettered signs. (Just add an “s” to most words, people.) Another is calling the holiday we celebrate this time of year “Turkey Day.”

I know it’s just a way of taking the stuffing out of a holiday that could use a little more fun. Cooking a big meal is hard work. Family gatherings can be stressful. And the way the word is constructed, “Thanksgiving,” is not really how we talk. We don’t go cardriving for foodbuying for mealpreparing for suppereating.

Still, “Turkey Day” sounds like we’re celebrating a big meal with a big bird, not our many real blessings. We eat turkey all the time. In fact, judging by our waistlines, we feast all the time. It feels like we’re celebrating excess, not plenteousness – like we’re celebrating only the gift, not The Giver.

Maybe we should call it “Giving Thanks Day.” Would that remind us what the day should be about?

I try not to write much about my personal life in this column. If you would like, you can email me, and I’ll respond, and we can get to know each other.

Briefly, for my immediate family that lives beneath our house’s protective roof and sturdy walls, it’s been a good year. My wife and daughters grow more beautiful inside and out every day. We are healthy and can pay our bills.

However, for some who are near and dear, it’s been a very challenging year. There have been times we all have had to remind ourselves to be thankful.

Our society should do a better job of that as well. America is a prosperous and free country. Its biggest internal problems – the ones that make us fight each other most bitterly – center around defining our freedoms and managing what most would consider to be abundance. And yet it seems that much of our public and private discourse is negative. I don’t remember us ever being so cranky.

We can look at this past year as one when we were subjected to many thousands of political ads, or we can be thankful that our prospective lawmakers were compelled to advertise to us. There are no campaign ads in North Korea. And whether or not we happen to approve of the choices voters made in November, the important thing is that they had the chance to choose.

Many years ago, my wife was a sad little girl in a dark place in life. On yet another lonely school bus ride, she prayed looking for answers and heard a voice say, “Thank Me.” She did, and kept doing it. It changed her life.

We all should follow the lead of that little girl. Let’s not allow this holiday to be hijacked by its own traditions. It’s not about turkey, or even getting everybody together. It’s one day a year when we should stop striving for whatever we’re striving for, be grateful for what we have, and then prepare to share our blessings during the Christmas season ahead.

When someone emails me about a column, I try to start each response with, “Thanks for reading and for writing,” even if the writing’s purpose is to tell me I’m an idiot. Most of us want to be heard and to connect. This column lets me do both.

So if you read this column, thank you. If you’ve ever written me for whatever reason, thank you. If you are an editor or publisher who finds a place for my column in your publication, thank you. I hope this holiday is a joyous time for all of you and all of yours. Happy Giving Thanks Day, and enjoy your turkey.