By Steve Brawner, © 2018 by Steve Brawner Communications, Inc.
Let’s say your family and another are getting together for a Friday evening dinner. You both have first-graders.
The parents are preparing the meal when the children enter the kitchen. Your child wants to play with dolls. Their child wants to play a game. They both want their way.
The best response is for the adults to guide the children toward an agreement. Perhaps they could take turns with the dolls and game, or maybe find an acceptable third choice. If one child refused to compromise and demanded his or her own way, he or she would face a consequence.
We teach our children that life is about give and take, but then we approach national politics like it’s a zero sum game. If you can’t have all you want, then no one should get anything they want, including you. When your side is right and the other is evil, then gridlock is preferable to compromise.
No other issue illustrates this better than illegal immigration, which this week eclipsed all others because now we’re confronted with kids being warehoused temporarily in cages. Continue reading


